Good morning! :)

My first ever web made public was when I signed up for a Tumblr account back in early 2010 and ever since, I learnt that a lot of anonymous out there think they understand me, my life and the people I associate myself to. Some people can be really judgmental why the rest just go with the flow. (but there exist some really sweet people out there!) Although it was bothering at first, I found myself getting adjusted to this after a while and after sometime, I could actually sit down facing the laptops, reading nasty comments and cynical messages while laughing over them with my loved ones before having them deleted. :)

Mean remarks can entertain you but they should never affect you.

Also, every now and then, Hariss loves checking the questions out and we would sit and actually discuss. Yes, we're boring..... ;)

Him : B, someone asked if you're ready to wear the hijab.
Me : Uhh.... ok.
Him : Should I ask if this person wears the hijab?
Me : No thank you.
Him : No no, my pleasure. It's gonna take 20 secs top.

Him : Yet the same question on "being fake". Should I ask this person to be creative?
Me : Noooo. Why does that question affect you so much?
Him : Of course. I'm spending my time looking through and they're not moving on and think out of the box.

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We also turned 22 months (and hopefully many more to come!) 2 weeks back and it's brought upon us so much happiness in this short period of time.

Me : Woooww, we turned 22 months. Are you happy?
Him : Yeah, more than words can say, but we can make things better for sure.
Me : It's not great yet?
Him : Not really. You always reject my calls and return them the next day and you're nicer to other people than me.
Me : Nooooo. Example?
Him : You hugged my brother but you only said "bye" to me yesterday.

But we'll pull through. :)

On Sister's Proposal.

I was involved in planning a secret event where my sister were going to be proposed to by her boyfriend. It was a journey of love and joy and I respect him so much for paying attention to every little detail : venue, flowers, ring, guests, cutleries used even! Hariss was stressed all the time because I kept on turning to him to point out how he should be in the future and now. :p


They've been dating for the past 7 years and her boyfriend; CH, thought it's time that they settle down and to move on to the next step in their lives. 


Things he did:

1) Rented out the whole The River Cafe in New York - where they first met through family arrangement.
2) A Mauboussin ring - something she casually told him she wanted as a gift just 2 hours before the event!!
3) An apartment at 515 East.
4) A Mary Katrantzou dress for the dinner.
5) Swakrovski Loubies.
6) a necklace from Ippolita + Pippa Small bracelet to go with the dress.

..... and she said "No".


I'm so devastated as though I am the guy. It's heart-breaking, really, knowing how I've always been a sucker for romance and happy endings. However, it's also taught me one lesson. It doesn't matter what you're presented with, if the timing's wrong, then things just won't go your way.


She needs more time apparently. There are still so many ambitions of hers she hasn't fulfilled, things she hasn't done, places she hasn't travelled to and most importantly, she thinks there are still more gaps for them to fill in - and time will heal.


But life goes on....